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two things that belong together more than kids and dogs?
This is a perfectly natural pairing if there ever was
one. Even as adults there is still a certain innocence
in us that thrills at the joy of receiving the unconditional
love of a canine companion. Many of us grew up with
a dog in the family, and if you are like me in any way,
a great deal of my fondest childhood memories are of
time spent with a dog at my side. For those of us that
found our first canine buddy during adulthood I believe
it is a way to attain that special innocent bond and
acceptance each of us desires deep down inside. Besides,
how many of your human friends will fetch a ball in
his mouth for you no matter how far you throw it, and
think it perfectly normal when you baby talk them while
you scratch their tummies?
Dogs are a super way to teach kids respect for others
and responsibility. After everything else with our sons
fails, we play the DOG CARD…..”Look son,
your dog loves you no matter what you do. Your dog can
not clean up after himself, and can’t open his
can of food. He depends on you for all of that, or he
gets very sick. You don’t want your doggie to
be sick, so help your doggie and take care of him. “
Yeah, it works even with two young boys known by many
as The Bungee Boys. Our sons are doing very well learning
both the joys and responsibilities of having a Bully
Buddy.
Seeing our boys romp and play with the dogs always
brings a great deal of joy to us. I often stop whatever
I am doing to just watch them together. It brings back
all of the memories of running through the mountains
with my boyhood buddy and bodyguard, who wrestled with
me and fended off coyotes, snakes, and skunks. He was
a 120 pound Doberman. Josh and Justin each have a Bulldog,
that mostly fend off stray bits of food the kids leave
in their wake. They both get along great with all of
the dogs, but each has a special one that he is responsible
for helping to take care of. They are learning how precious
life is, and how to nurture it. Yes, the boys are a
big part of our dog breeding. We don’t hide the
miracle of life from them, but teach them how to understand
what is happening in terms their young minds can understand.
They are also learning puppies are very fragile. That
is a gift that can not be purchased in a toy store.
Below are short stories that illustrate how we have
worked to involve the boys in our canine adventure…………
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Articles
on Kids and Bulldogs...
Puppy
Training for Kids/The Puppy Egg Theory
The
Puppy-egg Theory……Revisited
Bully
Buddies….(or should it be Bungee Wrangler?)
Bungee-atized
Bullpuppies/ Kid Training For Dogs
Still Bullified Bungees (NEW!!!!)
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Puppy
Training for Kids/ The Puppy-Egg Theory
by Ryan Betz
Not long ago my wife and I decided to breed our first
litter of Bulldog puppies. This brought some concerns
to mind for us in regards to our two young sons, ages
3 and 4. Our good friend and mentor, Mike Brunk, has
dubbed our sons as The Bungee Boys. I tell people who
remark on their activeness and creativity that they
have “an extreme love for life.” Kids being
what they are, and boys being what they are, I am sure
you can probably appreciate what I am trying to say.
So my dilemma was how to teach the boys how delicate
a newborn puppy is and how you are supposed to handle
them. I know my boys, and know that no matter how hard
I might try to keep them away from the pups it was going
to be a losing battle right from the beginning.
So as I was sitting at the dinner table thinking of
these things one night, it finally occurred to me as
to what I should do. I got up from the table and acquired
a raw egg from the refrigerator and a black marker.
I then carefully drew a Bulldog face on the egg and
showed it to my boys while carefully holding it in the
palms of my hands. The whole time I am telling them
to pretend the egg is a little puppy and about how delicate
and special it is. I am really making a big deal out
of it to them. Then I showed them how I wanted them
to pet a puppy with just one finger, very carefully.
I also lectured the boys about the evils of poking
at a puppy and I stabbed a finger at the egg and cracked
it. They got upset with me for that!....I also went
on to show them what happens if they pick up a puppy
and drop it. At that point I took the puppy-egg and
smashed it on the dinner table. Both of my sons jumped
and screamed! Their eyes were as big as plates! Looking
at them I quickly realized that my demonstration might
actually have sunk into their overactive minds. Once
the puppies arrived this proved to be true. I never
had to do my puppy-egg demonstration again, just a gentle
reminder, “remember the puppy-egg.”
Now the pups are older, and some of them are in their
new homes, but I am facing another dilemma. The pups
are out running in the back yard and are big enough
that they can tackle the boys and knock them down. This
also means that the boys also think it is okay for them
to do likewise! So as I sit here I am wondering if I
can modify my puppy-egg theory. If I get a watermelon,
paint it like a puppy and put it in the middle of the
yard, then get a running start and jump………….
…….well, you can picture the rest. So
go and love on your bullies and kids. Kids and Dogs!
What is more wonderful than that?
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The
Puppy-egg Theory……Revisited
by Ryan Betz
So now the Bungee Boys are older, 4 ½ and 6
years old. They are growing like weeds, and still have
a large love of life. We are talking about a great deal
of unharnessed raw energy here folks! They are very
bright and good boys though, with a desire to please
and be helpful, though at times focused in a not so
helpful direction.
For those of you who are unfamiliar with the Bungees,
let me introduce you to them. They are mine and my wife,
Mary’s, two young boys Josh and Justin. Josh is
the oldest. They were given the nickname of The Bungee
Boys by our mentor and good friend, Mike Brunk. If you
ask most of the Bulldoggers in Colorado who the Bungees
are, they can certainly point them out quickly enough.
They have also been earning some form of fame with Bulldoggers
from outside of the state as our circle of Bulldogger
friends has grown, and we continue to expand the list
of shows we are able to attend outside of our area.
In my first story, I described teaching my sons the
correct way for them to act around newborn Bulldog puppies,
and the evils of abusing the privileges of being around
the puppies. To do this I used a raw egg and a black
marker. I drew a Bulldog face on the egg and showed
the boys how to cradle the egg, gently stroke it with
one finger, and not smother it. I also showed them how
badly injured the “puppy” would be if you
poked, dropped, or threw it. These were all hands on
demonstrations and were very, very effective, even for
Bungees. Raising the pups with my two sons proved not
to be as hard as I was anticipating. Of course there
were a few instances that my heart thumped a little
faster, and harder, but all in all it went well.
Now the boys are older, and try to be even more helpful.
Sometimes they even are. They help me rotate dogs out
to the yards, and bring them in. They eventually get
around to bringing things such as a leash when I ask
(of course the quickness depends upon the value of the
cartoon on television at the time), and especially love
to give all of the dogs treats and biscuits. I have
to place the treats and biscuits up high, or threaten
everyone shorter than me, because they will evenly distribute
these items to all of the dogs until they are gone.
Of course the dogs love it when the boys decide to parcel
out the snacks and do not complain when there is a mountain
of snacks in front of each one of them!
Josh and Justin are also very helpful at the pet store
where we go to buy dog food. They are always making
sure mom and dad buy plenty of replacement snacks for
the dogs, and are extremely good at making sure the
dogs get new toys to replace the old torn up ones. They
seem to think it is the most helpful to do this when
mom and dad are not looking. It’s always a great
surprise to find an extra $100 worth of dog snacks and
toys stuffed under the dog food bags when we reach the
check-out. Their intentions are good. They just want
to make sure that all of their dogs get all of the best
stuff at all times.
We have been able to take the boys to more dog shows
as they grow older. It has been a struggle in the past
since Mary and I both show the dogs and on occasion
have to be in the ring at the same time. During some
of these times fellow Bulldoggers have stepped up and
been very helpful by keeping an eye on the Bungees for
us. For this we are very grateful. Other times we have
left the boys home with a sitter while we were at the
show. People always ask us why we didn’t bring
them because they are not a bother to them. Honestly,
sometimes it is just too much for us to juggle. Even
when a trusted friend is riding herd over the boys,
we can’t help but to keep one eye trained on them
outside of the ring and one on the judge. Then there
was the time when one of the boys went running into
the ring so mommy could pull his underwear and pants
up for him after he went potty. Yep, the judge put the
class on pause so mom could take care of business! A
friend was watching the boys that time, but he was just
way too fast for her and shot right under her and straight
to the ring to find mom.
Now days though they are fairly content to sit in
their big, comfy chairs with drinks and snacks while
mom and dad show the dogs. If you are ever ringside
and one or even two blond headed boys are there munching
away and giving a running commentary on the show, the
dogs in general, their favorite cartoons, toys, superheroes,
or life in general, then you have probably just met
The Bungees! They definitely will converse with you
as long as you are there.
Most folks are great at welcoming The Bungees ringside.
If nothing else it is always fun to see what they will
do next. However, on occasion we seem to run across
somebody who not only does not seem to appreciate young
people, but actually go out of their way to make life
tough for them. It has happened. There was one lady
who followed the boys for an hour, telling them they
were rotten little kids and scaring them. That was until
I saw what was going on, and she hasn’t come within
a 100 yards of the boys since. What runs through a person’s
head that does something like this? Why do some people
seem so miserable that they have to try and make everyone
else miserable too?
For all of you who have come before, and others starting
out in the dog fancy with your kids at your side, and
all who welcome children and encourage them, I salute
you! Believe me, I know how rough it is trying to participate
in the sport and be a parent at the same time. It has
been done by others, and can be done by the rest of
us.
The great thing about doing this is both of my boys
have been developing a growing interest in the dog fancy.
I have tried to be careful not to be pushy with the
boys about dogs. I don’t want them to become bitter
towards the whole thing. What I do try to do is teach
them simple things about our chosen breed and others
as well. The more I teach them, the more interested
they seem to become. Both boys have told me they want
to show dogs when they are old enough. I tell them they
certainly can if they still want to when they reach
the proper age. My youngest already has a Bulldog that
is his and loves her dearly. My oldest has picked another
breed as his favorite, even though I am slightly abashed.
I tell him that is great though, and that there is a
breed of dog suitable for everybody. We are working
on getting a dog of that “other breed” for
him as a pet for now. We don’t want to discourage
either of them.
Back to the egg. In case you were wondering, yes,
the boys still remember the puppy-egg demonstrations.
I only showed it to them once, but it was so visual
and participatory that they have not forgotten. Now
whenever they are around delicate pups I only admonish
them slightly to remember the puppy-egg, and they respond
by saying that is right and we don’t want to hurt
any puppies. I love my boys and I am proud of them.
So go give your kids a kiss, and hug your dogs. Kids
and dogs,….it just doesn’t get any better
than that!
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Bully
Buddies….(or should it be Bungee Wrangler?)
by Ryan Betz
Aw! Autumn is finally here, and the kids are in school!
That means there are a couple less Bungees in the house
part of the day. I have decided that because of a Bulldog’s
sense of humor, they are all Bungees too. I am outnumbered
here! Sometimes I call my wife a Bungee,….and
I get in trouble for it.
Once again The Bungees are older yet (funny how that
happens), and another litter of pups has arrived again.
Mini-Bungees. At least these are quieter and calmer,…for
now. The pups arrived a couple of days ago, and Josh
and Justin got to go in the back at the vet’s
office when Mary and I were rubbing puppies. They were
really good, and fascinated. When they came in back
I had them put their hands in their pants pockets. Naturally
they complained somewhat, but complied to Dad’s
Will without too much of a struggle.
The boys are getting used to being at the veterinarian
for breedings and such. Of course now they have their
own routine when we get there. They walk in with that
special Bungee Swagger like they own the place (or at
least run it), check in with the techs to see what is
new in their lives and describe their newest and most
awesome toy or something, hit the water cooler, and
then ravage the vet’s toy bin. After a while they
make it to the dog toys to inspect them to see if any
are good enough for their dogs, and back to the reception
area to greet all “newcomers” and tell them
how superior the Bulldog is. They also will eventually
decide to take an inventory of all of the cats in the
office. We don’t have cats at home so they are
fascinated by how they get to wander all over and sit
on counters. At least they no longer get in a boxing
match over the broken yellow crayon and the coloring
book with most of the pages ripped out. It’s also
easier to conduct business with the vet now, rather
than having to always manage a boxing match. They are
brothers, and all boys.
We get the pups home, and Justin decides he is Feeding
Supervisor. He had asked me why we have to feed the
puppies so often, and I explained to him because they
need good food just like him so they can grow healthy
and strong. So now if I am trying to get a nap in because
I was up all night with the pups he violently shakes
me awake and yells in my ear that I should be feeding
puppies. He is very adamant that all of the dogs should
be waited on hand and foot, day and night, ….by
me.
Josh and Justin wanted to help name the pups, as usual,
and as usual they always try to talk us into names that
we will not use, like Stinky, Poopy, Crabby, and Pee
Face. Yep, like I said, all boys. They of course griped
at us for not using their names, and looked at us like
we had two heads each when we told them we would consider
their ideas when they chose some that were not so yucky.
I told Mary that we could relent and use Crabby just
as a litter nickname, but she told me no. She is such
a girl sometimes. Oh well.
Justin is absolutely in love with his dog, Rosie,
still. He is finally realizing that when dad says no
more dog treats for her he means it. I have finally
gotten him to realize that when he feeds her so many
treats dad has to put her on a diet. He and Rosie are
the best of buddies and like to go on walks, run together,
and sit on the floor to watch cartoons.
Josh has decided that he doesn’t want the “other
breed” now after being around them some more.
He says he still likes them and asked me if it was okay
to like more than one breed of dog. I told him it sure
is okay, and that dad likes a lot of different breeds
and you don’t have to own one to like it. He still
loves his girl Bubbles as much as he ever has. He hasn’t
gotten to play with her like usual because she is the
one that just had the pups. Josh did a super job of
making sure Bubbles stayed calm all through the pregnancy.
We are not “dog poor” though, and he always
has dogs to play with.
Sometimes it gets a little chaotic when I get Reggie
out and the boys decide to play with him. Right now
Reggie is still a pubescent male and also alpha in nature.
The boys can get him going pretty good at times and
Reggie can give as good as he gets. One of Reggie’s
favorite games is to pretend he is a middle linebacker
and the boys are runningbacks with the ball. Right now
he weighs more than Justin and almost as much as Josh.
You can imagine the train wreck that is! I have had
the boys watching the Dog Whisperer on television (one
of their favorite shows besides Monster Garage) and
talking to them about helping me train Reggie to be
calmer. They are actually understanding that everybody
has to be calm with a dog, and not just one person.
It is working nicely so far.
All in all, life with ALL of my Bungees is good, and
worth every minute of it! If you don’t have a
Bungee in your life I suggest you find one to have and
love. Kids and dogs, and wives….they are GREAT!
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Bungee-atized
Bullpuppies/ Kid Training For Dogs
By Ryan Betz
Well, its time for another installment of the saga
that is our life with the Bungee kids, and Bungee Bulldogs.
Some of our close friends have told me that another
story is long overdue. Sorry, but sometimes it can be
difficult to get myself to sit down and write. I have
to be in a certain mood to do it, and lately my mind
has been wrapped up in improving our dog contracts and
writing educational material when I do decide to write.
So, you are probably asking yourselves what in the
world a Bungee-atized bullpuppy is. Is it some lunatics
crazy invention?.....Well, maybe. What I am referring
to in actuality though, is the way Josh and Justin (our
Bungee Boys) have been helping more and more with each
new litter of Bulldog puppies we have. Bullpuppy then
is obviously my shortened version of Bulldog puppy.
When they are smelling up the joint and it is time to
clean the puppy pen I often refer to the little buggers
as bullpooppies. I bet you are all catching on and up
to speed with me now. Or maybe its “down to speed”
with me. I’ll let you decide which.
To my way of thinking a Bungee-atized bullpuppy has
been tested and proofed by the Bungee Boys each and
every day of their young lives up until the bullpuppies
leave our home for their new homes. Kid socialization
for dogs. As both Josh and Justin have been getting
older they are proving themselves more trustworthy and
helpful with all of our dogs. This is especially true
when it comes to the bullpuppies. What kid doesn’t
love to mess around with a puppy? The boys have always
been involved in our Bulldog adventure to at least some
point, but that role has drastically expanded for them.
Now Josh and Justin are both at the age where they
definitely see the difference in behavior between different
dogs. They are understanding now that although a biting
puppy seems cute at first, a biting dog is no laughing
matter. Therefore, they are understanding that a biting
puppy is not so cute as first thought. (they actually
learned this lesson from other people’s dogs,
not ours thankfully) I know adults that seem never to
have learned this lesson, so I am very happy that Josh
and Justin have, and without getting hurt in the process.
What is Josh and Justin’s role in this beyond
just playing with cute little puppies, you ask? Very
simple, actually, but a very, very important one. Their
role is that when a puppy uses it’s brand spanking
new razor sharp teeth to try and separate your skin
from the rest of your body one chunk at a time, you
do not let the puppy get away with it. I don’t
mean by giving the pup a roundhouse and sending it through
the wall either!!! No, no, no, very bad! I also do not
mean by hitting the pup with a rolled up newspaper or
magazine. Too many people seem to think this is how
you are supposed to train a dog. Well, in my opinion
I would like to hit those people in such a way as to
match the scale. Since this means people are bigger
than the dog, I would like to lay these people out flat
and see how they like “being trained.” I
bet some of them would be angry enough to try and retaliate
against me. “Ding!” (light bulb going off)
What makes a dog different? Aggression meets aggression
until one becomes dominant over the other and the aggression
is out of control. Hence, a cute puppy is being trained
to become a vicious dog, and a major problem. In case
somebody blinked just now and missed it, I will state
it again. Aggression meets aggression.
Josh and Justin have both learned that to stop a pup
from biting, you first stop the current behavior by
saying “NO” in a commanding voice and removing
the teeth from your flesh by controlling the head in
a non-harmful manner. It takes time for a puppy to learn
to curb this behavior, and Josh and Justin have both
been learning to be patient in their training. The boys
have learned that over time a puppy learns to modify
it’s behavior without anyone getting hurt or angry.
The pups are then learning their first bit of obedience
training. WALAH! Happy calm Bungee kids, and happy calm
Bullpuppies! Makes for happy and calm mom and dad too.
The boys have also learned dominance training with
the bullpuppies, as well. They have learned that an
overexcited pup that is not behaving can gently be rolled
onto its back and made to lay there until it is calm
and submits to you. The pup’s reward for submitting
is to be let up and given a little love. This particular
tact has proven to be a specialty for Josh and Justin.
They are a lot more patient, gentle, persistent, and
consistent in using this method than most people would
be willing to give them credit for. This has been a
very effective training method with the bullpuppies.
Both boys have also been very instrumental in showing
our puppy buyers this method, and just how effective
it truly is. When two young boys can use this tact so
well, why shouldn’t an adult also be able to be
just as effective in using it?
Of course, new bullpuppies with new shiny and sharp
teeth need something to chew on, and the boys have learned
that when a pup just will not quit biting no matter
how persistent and patient they have been with the bullpuppies,
a new tact is needed. So now they have learned to distract
the pups with approved puppy chew toys, and I do not
mean dad’s shoes. Shoes are not approved bullpuppy
chew toys in our house, and never should be in yours
either, or you won’t have any shoes left.
In distracting the bullpups with approved toys, the
Bungee boys have discovered how to teach the bullpups
to fetch. I remember watching the boys the day they
discovered this all on their own. Their little faces
were grinning from ear to ear, and their chests were
puffed up like little banti-roosters! They were so proud
of themselves for discovering how to teach the pups
something, and not just teaching them NOT to do something.
I believe that up until that moment the boys thought
that all dogs came pre-programmed with the game of fetch
inside. I swear that when a dog would not fetch for
them, the boys believed the dog to be severely defective
and a waste of time to play with.
So once the Bungees were receptive to teaching the
bullpuppies TO DO something, it was time to move forward.
We decided the next thing to teach Josh and Justin to
teach the pups was walking on a leash. The blind leading
the blind, so to speak? Sometimes. All in all though,
that has been going well, under close supervision. Josh
and Justin are excited about learning to train the bullpups,
and I have explained to them that they need to start
with these things if they are going to be able to show
dogs in the future in the Jr Handling classes. Especially
when they are in a show ring and somebody else’s
dog is out of control, which does happen way too often.
Josh and Justin seem to be grasping the concept just
fine so far.
What is all of this doing to benefit the bullpuppies,
you ask? Well, good behavior and patience. It is just
as important, no actually, more important for a dog
to be kid friendly. I do not just mean a dog loves to
play with kids either. I have seen a lot of kids be
hurt by an overexcited dog when playing. I mean a dog
that is loving, patient, and obedient with children,
and not just with adults. Most dogs love kids, but a
good many of those same dogs try to be dominant over
kids. That is not usually an immediate and obvious problem,
but a problem definitely waiting to happen. Of course
the obvious problems are dogs that strongly dislike
children, or are afraid of children. This is usually
caused by children teasing, harassing, and even abusing
the dog. Trust me, we have had this happen to us with
three dogs we once had, by children that were once our
neighbors. One was a male Corgi, one a bitch Border
Collie, and one a two hundred pound, in tact male Rottweiler.
I even tried discussing the problem with the children’s
parents, especially in regards to my Rottweiler, and
the subject was met quite unfavorably. The parents thought
it was funny! Funny? I see nothing funny about a two
hundred pound dog finally getting fed up with some brat
teasing it and deciding to do something about it. Funny?
I find it scary!!!!! These people even ran an in-home
daycare, besides the four children of their own. You
would think they would know better! Would they think
it funny if a child was injured or even killed by an
angry dog? Apparently these particular people would
have. Some people should not be allowed to have children
in the first place.
I kept the situation under my control the best I could,
but it was my dog’s quality of life that was severely
inconvenienced by it. This same dog was very protective
of our own kids, and would lay his life down for them
in less than a heartbeat, but was scared of other children.
When other children were near him he would shake and
shiver at the same time he was looking for escape routes.
Luckily for all of us, no unfavorable incidents actually
occurred while the dog was still alive. We lost him
two years ago to a disease, and miss him still. He was
a valued friend, protector of the family, and bodyguard
to all of the Bulldogs, even though the Bulldogs were
not too keen about him. No neighbor kid was able to
get close enough to one of our Bulldogs to mistreat
them with Harley on the job, and dog thieves would have
quivered at the thought of going through him to steel
one of our precious bullies.
So you see, I am bound and determined that every pup
that walks out of our door, eventually, will be kid
socialized as much as I can possibly manage. Josh and
Justin are the key to starting the bullpups off on the
right path. (after, of course, breeding for good temperament
to begin with) I talk with each of our puppy buyers
at great length about how to keep the pups on that path.
This is a topic that I am very passionate about, and
Mary no less than I. We are also just as passionate
about our Bungees being dog socialized.
Recently Josh and Justin were invited to attend a
French Bulldog play day by some friends of ours in that
breed. So Mary took them, and I stayed home to mow the
weeds in the pasture or something. I think mainly I
was just enjoying some time at home without the three
of my biggest Bungees. (Still love you, honey. Don’t
hurt me.) When Mary got home she said the boys had a
blast, but Josh got in trouble one time until she understood
what he was doing. It seems there were some other children
there, and they were throwing a ball around and chasing
it in the yard. Josh took the ball away from them and
threw it over the fence. That is what got him in trouble.
Josh explained to his mom though that the kids were
running over the dogs when they chased the ball and
the dogs were all scared. So he took the ball away from
them and got rid of it. He was worried about the dogs.
Mary then explained she was proud of his reasons, but
did not approve of his actions. He promised to do his
best to handle the situation in a better manner the
next time. Do you think our boys have become dog oriented
at all?
Another example involves Justin. Not long ago a friend
of his from pre-school came over to see the pups and
play. We were all sitting on the floor with the pups,
and the boy was at first a little scared of the pups,
but then started playing a little rough with them. Justin
grabbed his friend’s hands and pulled them back
from the pups. Justin looked his friend in the eyes
with a very serious expression and asked, “Don’t
you know about the puppy-egg?” I had to look away
and chuckle. You see, the Puppy-egg Theory is still
viable and effective! I haven’t said a word about
the puppy-egg for quite some time, but even Justin strongly
remembers my little demonstration with the chicken egg
and black marker. This just proves to me that I actually
had at least one really good idea.
So now I am going to bring this segment of the Bungees
and bullpups to a close. So until next time, go love
your own Bungees and bullpups. Take care until the next
time my friends………….!
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Still Bullified Bungees
By Ryan Betz
I know, I know, it has been a while since I have written any installments to the Tales of the Bungees. Or should it be The Tails Of Bulldog Bungees? Hmmm? I’ll have to give that some thought. Maybe take a poll since those are popular these days.
Time passes by, the seasons come anew and pass into memory, new pups are born with some finding great new homes while others fill our daily lives with joy and chaos, and the Bungees grow. Oh boy, do they ever grow! Sometimes it seems like they just took their first breath of life yesterday, and other times I can not remember what life was like for Mary and I before Josh and Justin came into our lives. If you happen to be a parent yourself, I know you know what I mean.
They are not babies, or even little kids any more. Now they are young boys, full of life, energy, and dreams of their own. At this stage though they are even more involved with the Bulldogs than ever before. They work with the dogs and care for them in one way or another each and every day, and do it with joy in their hearts. It fills me with pride to see them care for other living creatures so much. It would be very hard for Mary and I to pursue our dreams and goals in this Bulldog laden adventure of ours if the boys did not put so much of themselves into it. Actually, it would be pretty near impossible without all they do and the support they give!
No, dogs are not their entire lives. They lead pretty healthy kid lives. They have their friends, toys, video games, favorite TV shows, and sports. They both are pretty darn good students at school too. They each take their studies pretty seriously. It seems more seriously than I can remember myself taking it anyways, which has got to be an improvement. Maybe that’s not saying as much as I intended it to.
Oh, and by the way………they get mad at me for calling them Bungees. SSSHHHH, don’t tell them I still do! Let it be our little secret, okay? For myself, Mary, and many others that have played a big role in their lives they will always be Bungees. Probably even after they are bigger than me and have families of their own. Luckily those days are still a ways off, and I’m still the biggest bear in our household. I always warn them too, do not poke at the bear.
So anyways, Josh has begun his career in the dog fancy with a bang, as you may have noticed from his Junior Handling page and pictures. Garth WAS my dog, and now he belongs to Josh. Yep, I created a little “dog thief” just like me. Mary calls me a dog thief because I tend to take over on all of the dogs around here. If the rest of the family is lucky I might share one now and again with them, but Garth did jump ship and follows Josh as his captain now. The mutiness little hairy beast! The dog, not Josh.
All kidding aside, I couldn’t be more proud of how quickly and thoroughly Josh and Garth have become a team. They aren’t just partners in the show ring, but they really are buddies. From the very first day Josh started training, Garth started teaching him instead of the other way around, and that is exactly how we had it planned. Garth was already trained to be a push-button show dog. It was Josh who needed the training, and yes, Garth did help a lot. When trying to stack the dog Josh would put the feet in the wrong place, and Garth would patiently correct himself over and over again. When Josh didn’t quite know where to stop or stand, Garth did. So Josh started in his very first shows placing more often than not. I think one of the hardest things for him to learn was not to jabber at the judge, and try to negotiate doing a different pattern that he wanted to show off because he just learned how to do it, or tell the judge what ribbon the last judge awarded him. But then with just a mere handful of shows as experience he stepped into the ring at the 2007 BCA Nationals. It was a sight to behold! Suddenly it all seemed to come together for him. He was now leading the dog, and stacking the dog, and in command of the dog. His posture suddenly correct. His attention where it should be when it should be there. Suddenly he looked much older than his nine years of age. And he won. He won big. He not only won big, but won big three days in a row over competition that was high school aged! And won soundly. Plus one day he put on this huge and cheesy grin that I know many people won’t forget. He had most all of us bursting at the seams, including the judge. Just as poised and correct as Josh was, so was Garth. Side by side, working together the way any team should. And sitting outside the ring being Josh’s biggest fan of all was his younger brother, Justin. Cheering him on, clapping, and congratulating, all three days. You would have thought Justin was cheering for his favorite hockey team. But alas, no. The cheering was for his older brother. The same guy that throws him to the ground and gives him wedgies. Justin had tears of pride and joy in his eyes, and so did Mary and I.
Since that week at Nationals there have been several more shows. Not every day was a win, but that is okay, and that is life. Josh has been very consistent though, and very determined, and yes, has done some winning too. You see, he doesn’t show dogs because mom and dad want him to, or make him. He does it because he is self motivated to do so. He wants it. He works at it. He pushes himself, and sets his own goals. He goes to practice every week and works very hard, all because he wants to. It is an uncommon day around here when josh does not suddenly and unexpectedly burst out with, “I love dogs!” He asks at least twice a week when the next show is, and how many times he’s entered. He always wants to see the show calendar. He also tries to snatch away the show premium lists and judging programs first when they come in the mail. Then I have to smack the back of his hand and tell him to put them back, because if I don’t I will never see them again.
Then there is Justin. Sweet little innocent looking Justin. He’s the real dog thief of the household. (poor Mary doesn’t stand a chance with her three guys all being dog thieves) I have to really keep my eye on him. He wants ALL of the dogs for himself. As good as Josh is with the dogs, Justin is better at the day to day of it. Just younger. He is very diligent with his dog care. He is the real caretaker. Constantly checking their wellbeing and health. Constantly giving me detailed reports if there is any change in any dog, without my asking. And for heaven sakes, if Josh misses something or doesn’t do a food pan or water bowl right Justin will unload on him and tell him all about it! That is when mom or dad have to step in and break it up. You see, Josh knows how to take care of dogs just as well as Justin, but maybe just not the exact way Justin wants it. I think Justin gets that particular trait from me, unfortunately.
Justin also has a very good eye for dogs, and not just Bulldogs. He studies a lot of different breeds. He likes to discuss what makes a quality dog all of the time with me. At a dog show he’ll suddenly go from having his face buried in his Nintendo game to quizzing me about a dog that caught his eye from across the room, even when I could swear he was so tuned into his game that I didn’t think he even knew we were at a dog show. At those times he will stow his game away completely out of site and switch completely over to studying dogs. I’ve witnessed him picking the breed winning dogs from various breeds that day by just watching them walk by on their way outside to the grass, when he hasn’t even seen their competition. He’ll say, “Hey dad, did you see that dog? I really like that one. I bet he’ll win breed today.” Then later out of curiosity I’ll check, and sure enough, there goes that dog to the Group ring because it did in fact win Best of Breed that day. The boy has a gift. Hmmm? I wonder if Mary would get mad at me if I snuck him off to Vegas for some horse betting?
A little over a month ago Justin approached me with a serious proposition. He was very serious, and his expression demanded my full attention. You see, he had decided it is getting close to the time when we should breed his Bulldog girl that he owns. She is his girl completely, except on paper where legally he has no choice but to share her with mom and dad. Since I have a young male, Maverick, that I own and won’t let anyone shorter than me touch, lest they try to steal him away from me as the theme around here seems to be going these days, and Justin wants to use him as the stud dog. He had thoroughly studied his plan, and laid it all out to me in a precise manner. He informed me of the traits his girl lacked, and explained to me that those particular traits Maverick happens to abound in. He discussed the obvious good health of both dogs. He even discussed the flashiness of the possible color combinations that would result from such a pairing. Then he asked me for permission to use Maverick at stud for his girl. I was dumbfounded, purely amazed, and proud as could be all at the same time. You see, all of his reasoning to my way of thinking was completely sound and correct. In fact, Mary and I already had that exact breeding planned for his girl, but just hadn’t said anything to him about it, and for all of the same reasons he said to me! Justin is just eight years old. I know dog breeders personally, adults, that breed dogs all the time without any apparent clue for what they are doing, and here is our eight year old son planning dog breedings for very specific reasons. By the way, none of those reasons included anything about him loving both of those dogs and the puppies would be cute. You know, what you would typically attribute as kid reasons for such things. However, I have heard adults say that was their reasons for breeding over and over again. Really makes one sit back and ponder on things a bit now, doesn’t it?
Don’t be sad for Justin not getting to show dogs though. He is about to go into extensive training here very shortly, so that by the time he gets to step into the Junior Handling ring at nine years old he will hopefully be well prepared for competition. Yes, he is self motivated to do it too, and is itching to start. He just needs dad to actually get busy and make time to start the training with him. Then after he gets some basics he will be joining Josh at his weekly class with the professional trainer. Yep, Justin will be thieving another one of my dogs. Nope, not Maverick either, even though he tries again and again. This time it will be one of Maverick’s sisters, Janie. She’s not completely push button as a show dog yet, but she is very sweet and calm, and has done very well in the puppy ring at shows as she has not placed any lower than 1st place yet at the time of this writing and multiple show weekends under her belt. She’s daddy’s girl, but she also loves Justin very much. So I do believe she should respond very well to Justin in the show ring. I can imagine the two of them becoming quite the team very similar to Josh and Garth.
Once Josh gets a bit more handling experience under his belt we hope to have him start helping out with showing the girls in the breed ring. Hopefully by the end of the summer. Then eventually Justin too, if it all works out well for him. However, I am putting my foot down. The male dogs are mine to show. I am just going to have to be selfish about it, except on those periodic occasions when I have two males in the ring at the same time. In those instances Mary will be stepping in the ring to handle one or the other of the males for me. But during those times the dog is just a loaner and must be returned immediately upon the completion of competition. “Hey lady, put the leash down and carefully step away from the Bulldog!” The Bungees & Bungee Mama may pout about it, but there are plenty of the girl dogs to go around and share. Besides, the boys still need to have time to just be kids and do kid things.
Oh, I almost left without referring back to the Puppy Egg! Yes, those lessons are still in effect, but much improved. Why you ask? Improved because the boys are now passing it along in their own way to other youngsters. You see, when we sell pups to anybody we first conduct interviews with the potential buyers in our home. Quite often these buyers also have their own version of Bungees with them. Quite often these young children do not know how to act around, treat, or handle even dogs, let alone vulnerable little puppies with a full set of sharp and shiny teeth in their mouths. In these instances Mary and I most often turn the instructing over to our bigger, fully adapted and trained Bungees. The boys really enjoy teaching other kids the proper way to interact with dogs and puppies without being frightened. Josh and Justin have their own techniques on how to teach these kids, but more often than not they are very successful. Dad is on deck as standby though just in case the need arises for some additional help in tutoring. And mom is waiting in the wings watching to make sure dad gets it right too.
So until next time my friends, take good care, hug on those Bulldogs, and if you are lucky enough to have your own Bungee in your life…..best of luck to you too! |
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